Adult with ADHD or AuDHD and burnout symptoms?
Your life isn’t one-dimensional. ADHD solutions shouldn’t be either.
Nervous-system-first, science-based, sequenced, and integrative support.
Coaching, education, and training - for founders, freelancers, nomads, and work-from-home professionals.
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REGULATE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM
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GAIN CLARITY & MOMENTUM
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BUILD SYSTEMS THAT STICK
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SUPPORT BEYOND MEDICATION
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DECODE YOUR ADHD
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REGULATE YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM
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BANISH BURNOUT
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GAIN CLARITY & MOMENTUM
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BUILD SYSTEMS THAT STICK
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SUPPORT BEYOND MEDICATION
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DECODE YOUR ADHD
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BANISH BURNOUT
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“Dee is very professional but down to earth and so full of knowledge about all things neurodiversity… I wholeheartedly trust her expertise and coaching and have always felt like she genuinely cares and is so passionate about what she does” - S. Phipps (educator)
Personal development, positive change, and healing can be trickier for adults with ADHD or AuDHD…
THE PROBLEM
Blurred Boundaries: Work, home, family — all competing, never switching off
Burnout Cycles: Overworking followed by crashes or flares. You push hard, then pay for it.
Hyperfocus and Collapse: Going all-in on one thing while everything else quietly unravels.
Scattered and Foggy: Focus, prioritizing, and follow-through all feel harder than they should be.
Stuck Before Start: Resistance to beginning tasks even when the consequences are very real and very visible.
Avoidance and Irritability: Perfectionism keeping you from starting, stuck endlessly in research, snapping at people you love.
THE ANSWER
To move from surviving to thriving, ADHD solutions should be integrated and designed and delivered holistically. Here’s why.
If your body is overloaded or mismanaged - your ADHD nervous system prioritizes actions aligned with ‘survival needs’, rather than desired goals
If your priorities aren’t clear or don’t resonate, you go in circles or avoid them, instead of progressing towards what’s helpful
If you’re emotionally dysregulated - executive functions and higher thinking, like initiating, planning, and decision making, go offline, entirely
If your surroundings or environment creates friction - your capacity gets depleted before you start
If your identity conflicts with your vision - progress stops as your nervous system prioritizes familiarity
If your life systems don’t support easy maintenance - momentum collapses, as your nervous system is built to be energy efficient
MEET YOUR COACH
Hi, I'm Dee, founder of HoloADHD - and I built what I couldn't find.
I’m a former corporate product strategist and proposition developer - turned ADHD, AuDHD, and nervous-system coach for neurodivergent adults.
I'm also a wife, mom of young kids, and a late-diagnosed ADHDer juggling a multifaceted life — just like my clients.
I built an integrated, holistic approach to deliver on my mission of helping late-diagnosed ADHDers or AuDHDers gain momentum on their big goals or areas they’d like to grow, heal, or transform, without sacrificing existing things that matter, like their home, health, or family.
Because late-diagnosed ADHDers like you don't need fixing. You need the right environment, strategies, and systems to thrive…
UNIQUE DIFFERENCE
Integrative, whole-life, and nervous-system-first sequenced support for ADHD
We empower you to build the capacity, mental clarity, and momentum to spark the right actions...
…then we help you support continued progress with ADHD-friendly systems, scaffolds, and environments that make it sustainable.
HOW WE SUPPORT
HOLOADHD7 ™: Seven pillars. Integrated, sequenced support across every dimension to alleviate stress and enhance success.
(INTERNAL WORLD)
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EVERYTHING starts here. Nervous system regulation, health and wellbeing, managing emotions, energy, and bandwidth.
When you’re dysregulated and capacity is depleted, the ‘CEO’ part of your brain stays offline, so even the most ‘perfect’ strategy wouldn’t stick.
We help you:
*improve interoception - key for regulation - and stay attuned to what’s energizing and draining
*create strategies for maximizing regulation and energy
*build sustainable habits that regulate and mobilize you towards goals
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ADHD has a way of leaving you busy but disconnected from what you actually care about.
And direction without meaning rarely mobilizes you, at least far enough.
We help you:
*clarify values, strengths, needs
*untangle competing priorities
*anchor goals to something that genuinely motivates your brain - intrinsically driven
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When the path ahead feels foggy, overwhelming, or unachievable, planning and progress stalls.
We help you:
*untangle and organize: thoughts and feelings, tasks and time
*reprogramme limiting beliefs and work through any decision paralysis that keeps you stuck
*create a compelling and clear picture of what's ahead that your brain can be confident in getting started
(ACTIVATION)
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Knowing what to do and actually doing it are two different things - especially with ADHD.
We help you:
*find what fires behavior, forward progress, and creates somatic activation
*understand things like ADHD dopamine signaling, and the biggest things getting in the way of real-time actions you want to take
*work with your nervous system's need for safety, interest, relevance, meaning, or novelty to get you moving forward
(EXTERNAL WORLD)
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Your physical and digital environments either make goals easier or harder - they shape behavior and habits - and for more neurodivergent brains, it is even more vital that they support and scaffold everything your brain doesn’t absolutely need to carry.
We help you:
*create goal-aligned and sensory supportive spaces and zones
*reduce dysregulation and friction, and support focus
*declutter and simplify spaces for regulation
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Systems make it easy to start and maintain momentum - so you can keep going even on the hard days, weeks, or months.
We help you:
*Identify the friction and bottlenecks from repeating actions and create solutions for them
*Effectively manage your time and get the routines and rituals that reduce daily decision load and effort
*Systemize management of your business, home, health, personal, or/and family life tasks
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Secure attachments can be harder for ADHDers due to rejection sensitivity (RSD), dysregulation, and inconsistent emotional responses.
But coregulation is the first step in nervous system regulation.
We help you:
*reduce masking and fawning, or avoidant or anxious relational patterns
*decrease rejection-sensitive responses and create effective boundaries that leave the relationship in tact
*reduce ADHD parenting and relationship struggles, and improve communication, collaboration and connection
WHO THIS WORK IS FOR
HoloADHD supports adults who:
Are late-diagnosed with ADHD or AuDHD, or have ADHD or AuDHD symptoms
Are juggling business/ work, home, and relationships — and feel stretched thin
Cycle between overworking or perfectionism and then burnout
Feel capable, but inconsistent
Want more sustainable forward momentum
Wants science and evidence-based solutions
Have big goals, or know they’re meant for more
Are a highly sensitive person (HSP)
Are not neurodivergent, but are parents of ADHD children, or have a partner with ADHD
This may not be for you if:
You want a diagnosis or any clinical mental health or medical treatment
You want to keep stress as a tool for motivation
You’re looking for quick hacks
You don’t think knowing the ‘why’ is important for behavior change
What’s possible to unlock…
Sustainable momentum toward goals
A fulfilling business that aligns with life
Steadier energy & nervous system
Clearer priorities & more confidence in direction
Connected, cohesive home life
Deeper self trust
…Less in flux. More in flow.
Ways We Can Work Together.
Three ways to get support.
STARTER
4 x Weekly Sessions
4 focused 50-min sessions to get started in moving forward in one area - such as health, home, parenting, relationships, business or a life transition.
Starting at $150 for a limited time.
MOST POPULAR - WAITING LIST
3-Month Cohort Package (Coming Soon)
Deep, integrated sequenced support across all foundational pillars and life priorities.
Working on expanding capacity, clarity and momentum towards what matters.
Starting at $97 per month for a limited time.
WORKSHOPS
7 x Parenting Workshops
Support for parents navigating ADHD in themselves, their children, or both. Covers collaboration, communication, boundaries, consequences, nervous system regulation, homework, and more.
Starting at $60.
Here’s what integrated, life-wide support can include/look like in practice:
Regulating Nervous System, Stress Release, and Improving Energy & Capacity
• Nervous system regulation program • ADHD nutrition support • hormone management • movement habits • energy management • sleep hygiene support
Getting Clarity & Direction and Shifting Towards What Lights You Up
• Utilizing values and strengths • embodying identity in line with vision • shifting internal saboteurs and limiting beliefs • deepen meaning, purpose and resilience
Life Systems and Sensory Environments That Support Goals
• home-life systems • business systems • sensory supportive environmental changes • creating spaces aligned with goals
Secure Attachment Building and ADHD Parenting
• rejection sensitivity tools • boundaries support • self advocacy + communication • cohesive parenting • conflict & repair tools
ADHD-Aligned New Business Building
• positioning • offer design • content strategy • conversion strategy • workflows • customer experience design
Testimonials
Start With A Free Call
An open, free from judgment chat to understand what’s feeling stuck, and what kind of support would help move you forward.
If it feels like a good fit, we’ll map your next steps.
Bring your questions, your frustrations, and your goals!
Frequently Asked Questions
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Coaching specifically focuses on:
forward movement rather than the past
identity shifts and changing limiting beliefs
aligned decision-making
systems and environmental design
nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and capacity
real-world implementation
If you’re looking instead for cognitive trauma processing, diagnosis, or clinical mental health treatment, I’m happy to refer you to a licensed therapist.
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No.
Many adults I work with are:
late-diagnosed
self-identified
exploring whether ADHD or AuDHD fits
navigating HSP traits or executive function differences
You don’t need paperwork to start building better conditions for your wiring.
As well as inattentive, hyperactive and combined ADHD traits, my expertise includes the AuDHD neurotype - my experience includes working with:
Interoception difficulties
Sensory sensitivities
Alexithymia and dysalexithymia
Monotropism
Masking
Emotional awareness
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
Hyperfocus
Task-switching difficulties
Rejection sensitivity
Fluctuating capacity -
That’s usually because the system wasn’t designed for:
your nervous system state
your emotional drivers
your energy patterns
your real life load
This isn’t hacks.
It’s about regulating capacity first before support getting clarity - then building scaffolds and systems that fit your wiring.
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Most ADHD support focuses on one thing, like:
time management tools
accountability
HoloADHD integrates:
nervous system regulation to reclaim choice
identity and meaning work
north star and vision clarity
strengths and values leveraging
executive function scaffolding
environmental design
relational co-regulation
hormone mastery
ADHD nutrition and restoration
business + home systems
Day week month mastery
It’s biopsychosocial and environmental.
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No.
In fact, we start by reducing overload.
Regulation comes first.
Then clarity.
Then simple, sustainable structure.You won’t be handed a 27-step plan.
You’ll get targeted, layered shifts.
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Yes — I deal with parents juggling:
ADHD themselves
ADHD children
multiple roles
hormonal shifts
business responsibilities
This is not ADHD parenting coaching alone.
It’s integrated household regulation and systems support that positively impacts you and the rest of your household.
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Yes.
Many clients are:
founders
professionals
service providers
creatives
Business struggles often are regulation + identity + system design issues.
We help you grow life first businesses that don’t burn down your nervous system.
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ADHD medication, whether it is a prescribed stimulant or non-stimulant, can make focus easier.
But ADHD is not a deficit in attention but a difference in regulation, which the medication doesn’t help with.
Most people with ADHD, especially those who are late diagnosed, still need the systems, structures, education, and skills development to make progress on their life goals.
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Yes.
While many of my clients are late-diagnosed women, as much of the support out there misses their needs, the work is for adults with ADHD or AuDHD who want integrated support.
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To feel
increased clarity
reduced overwhelm
better regulation awareness
most clients need at least six sessions.
Deeper shifts in identity, systems, and sustainable capacity develop over months - not overnight.
This isn’t a quick fix.
It’s a sustainable reset -
If you are in burnout we slow down first.
If your nervous system has been in survival mode for too long, your brain will:
struggle to prioritize
avoid tasks
feel foggy or wired
lose access to meaning
We don’t push productivity hard in that state.
We rebuild physiological capacity, reduce friction, and restore clarity.
Forward momentum without burnout is the goal.
Many ADHD and AuDHD adults also experience anxiety.
Often what gets labeled as “anxiety” is:
chronic nervous system activation
uncertainty intolerance
rejection sensitivity
cognitive overload
environmental misfit
We work with the body and these states - not just the thoughts to help you move forward.
We are not a substitute for medical care or medical advise.
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Yes.
I believe structured support should be sustainable — not another source of stress.
Payment plans and pay-what-you-can options are available for packages - we can discuss what makes sense for your situation during a discovery call.
Transparency matters here.
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This work is designed exactly for that. I believe in planning for real life, not ideal weeks, and in helping you build systems that adapt as your energy, health, or circumstances change.
Regulating the nervous system and working with integrative health and nutrition, also help you build on your average capacity.