Late diagnosed ADHD or AuDHD – and still waiting for things to finally click?
Finally follow through – while juggling it all, feeling good, and not forcing it
…And without sacrificing your health and wellbeing, or the people you love
An integrative, mind-body approach to increase your nervous system capacity, and reclaim your peace, power and performance.
1:1 COACHING
GROUP COHORTS
CONSULTING
30 MINS. PRIVATE & CONFIDENTIAL.
Take control of your
Your conscious mind can react in seconds…
Your nervous system? In as little as a millisecond…
That's why willpower and hacks keep failing you…As unhelpful, subconscious patterns are running the show.
ADHD and change that doesn’t involve dropping the ball elsewhere - requires three fundamentals:
1. Attunement, and meeting your core unmet needs
2. Externalizing your brain and reshaping your environment, to reduce friction and add ease to actions
3. Aligning actions and behaviors with what you deeply connect with
Because while your ADHD nervous system is different, it’s not deficient. It’s simply wired to…
1. Keep habits the same, as the subconscious prioritizes survival over flourishing
2. Be more responsive and more sensitive to your immediate environment
3. Move more towards what’s emotionally salient rather than towards tasks with logical consequence
“ALL behaviors make perfect sense when you look at them holistically through the lens of the nervous system”
- Jessica Maguire, Nervous System Educator & Researcher
Your ADHD challenges are not like the typical ones in medical text books…
Blurred Boundaries:
Work, home, family responsibilities - all competing. Mind never switching off from any of them.
Burnout & Irritability:
Overworking followed by crashes or flares. You push hard, then body and mind pays for it and can’t keep up.
Hyperfocus & Collapse:
Going all-in on one thing, while everything else quietly unravels.
Scattered & Foggy:
Focus, prioritizing, and follow-through all feel harder than they should be.
Stuck Before Even Start:
Smashing some tasks but resistance to others, even when the consequences are very real and very visible.
Avoidance or Freezing:
Perfectionism keeping you endlessly in research or edit mode, and not moving forward on the right things.
Much of the existing ADHD support landscape wasn’t built for you…
Most advice was designed for the young with one main focus, like schoolwork – not those juggling ADHD and multiple responsibilities – such as managing:
• Careers
• Households
• Partnerships
• Families
• Communities
• Fluctuating hormones
• Health and wellbeing
And more…
THE ANTIDOTE
So when everything in your life is so interconnected, your solutions for your ADHD life need to be integrated. Here’s why.
If your body is overloaded, mismanaged, or out of homeostasis - your ADHD nervous system prioritizes actions it thinks is aligned with meeting these ‘survival needs’, even if undesired by your conscious mind
If your priorities aren’t crystal clear or don’t deeply emotionally resonate, you go in circles, avoid them, or burnout, instead of creating momentum towards what’s most helpful
If you’re dysregulated - executive functions and higher thinking, like initiating, planning, and decision making, go offline, often entirely
If your surroundings or environment creates friction - your capacity gets depleted, sometimes before you even get started
If your identity conflicts with your vision - progress stops, as your nervous system mobilizes towards behaviors in line what belief is familiar and feels true, not what’s desired
If your life systems don’t support easy maintenance - momentum collapses, as your nervous system is built to be energy efficient, and go towards what’s easy, not what’s most sensible.
This is why HoloADHD goes further – with integrative coaching, education and practitioner support – We works across six interconnected dimensions, which we flex based on your overall goals and starting point…
1. DIRECTION
Create meaningful vision, decide best way forward, clarify best next steps.
2. MOTION
Use catalysts and raise stakes to get started and sustain momentum.
3. BODY
Regulate nervous system, increase capacity, vitality, and energy, and embody future self.
4. MIND
Rewire limiting beliefs, master emotions & foster more secure attachment patterns.
5. SPIRIT
Attune and align to truest and highest self (strengths, values, purpose, personality preferences).
6. ENVIRONMENT
Externalize brain and systemize to-dos to lower friction and increase ease.
Here’s the process for getting started. We’ll help you…
1. Map your starting point and clarify goals
You get a deep-dive assessment across body, brain, and beyond — so you understand exactly where you’re losing capacity, where you still need clarity, and where to focus strengths and efforts.
2. Regulate your nervous system
We co-create a plan and I partner as your integrative health and somatic practitioner to help you address any burnout, dysregulation and unmet core needs — because no strategy works well when stuck in survival mode.
3. Set up your systems
We do on the spot implementation and start to help you get external structures, spaces, zones, rituals and rhythms that reduce cognitive load, automate helpful behaviors, and make it easier to avoid distractions or easily restart after them.
4. Embody and reconnect with vision and activation of higher self
While we get you more systemized, we help you clarify what truly matters and attune to what aligns with it – we build on habits that get you started and sustainably moving forward.
5. Embed way forward, edit and expand
You’ll keep what works, and we’ll adapt what doesn't — sustainably building a life that aligns to values and goals, leverages strengths and resources, and moves towards vision.
Multiple ways you can get results
Group Programs (Coming Soon - Get on the waitlist)
Community + structured cohort learning
1:1 Coaching & Support
Personalized, transformative, nervous-system-led sessions
Workshops
Experiential and digestible knowledge so behavior sticks
Tools + systems
Practical plug and play frameworks built for your brain
“Dee is very professional but down to earth and so full of knowledge about all things neurodiversity… I wholeheartedly trust her expertise and coaching and have always felt like she genuinely cares and is so passionate about what she does”
- S. Phipps (educator)
Where do I start about Dee? She is both very professional and very empathetic, and she brings a lot of positive energy in the room! Our sessions always help me uncover what I truly want and bring me clarity on how to move forward. Dee is a great listener and structures her sessions in a way that pushes me to get my results smoothly and effortlessly, which is sooo amazing! Every time we speak, I feel energised and super-confident in achieving my goals. That's her magic! Couldn't recommend her more!
Silvia (Start-up Founder)
MEET COACH AND FOUNDER
I spent years building customer propositions for complex, unsolved problems in the corporate world.
Later I got my ADHD diagnosis - and realized I'd been living one myself all along…
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Plus, I’m someone who has lived every layer of this. Late diagnosis. Big dreams. A marriage and young kids. A business. Physical health issues. Cultivating a community thousands of miles from my hometown. A full, multifaceted life that needed a whole-life solution…
…Not just a solution that addresses only one or two pieces of the puzzle. Not something that tackled the surface-level challenges and missed the root-causes like a regulated nervous system. Not anything designed for children, or for people with one current focus, as opposed to those juggling multiple, competing priorities.
I wanted solutions that:Make me feel in control of ALL my priorities - things like my home, health, business, AND family life
Help me make progress on audacious goals without burning out
Has my environment and wiring working together, so follow-through stops feeling so hard
Helps me make sense of myself and the way I work
Aren’t fragmented - as my life roles and responsibilities (mom, wife, business owner, friend etc) are so intertwined and are all important.
When I nerded out on my search for help, no existing ADHD solution fit the bill of what I was looking for, as they…Didn’t lead with the nervous system, even though regulation is at the heart of ADHD.
Weren’t focused on environment and systems - even though that’s what helps us juggle everything and reduce sensory dysregulation
Didn’t offer full, integrated solutions - even though my different life areas are all so interconnected.
So I tirelessly began researching, studying A LOT, redesigning, building, and becoming a home for what others like me needed…
Some of what’s possible to unlock, together…
Sustainable momentum toward aligned goals
A fulfilling business that aligns with the life you’re building
Better health and vitality, sustained energy, steadier nervous system
Clearer priorities & more confidence in decisions
Connected, cohesive home-life and relationships
Deeper self trust and identity transformation
WHO THIS WORK IS FOR
HoloADHD supports adults who:
Are late-diagnosed with ADHD or AuDHD, or have ADHD or AuDHD symptoms
Are juggling business/ work, home, and relationships - and feel stretched thin
Cycle between overworking or perfectionism and then burnout
Feel capable, but inconsistent
Wants more sustainable forward momentum
Wants science and evidence-based support
Have big goals, or know they’re meant for more
Are a highly sensitive person (HSP)
Are not neurodivergent, but are parents of ADHD children, or have a partner with ADHD
This may not be for you if:
You want a diagnosis or any clinical mental health or medical treatment (I can refer you)
You want to keep stress as a tool for motivation
You’re looking for quick hacks
Some ways individuals can work with me.
STARTER PACKAGES
4 x 1:1 Sessions
8 x 1:1 Sessions
12 x 1:1 Sessions
Focused 50-min sessions to get started in moving forward in one area - such as health, home, parenting, relationships, business or a life transition.
Discounted for a limited time.
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8 Week Group Cohort Package
Deep, integrated sequenced support across all foundational pillars and life priorities.
Working on expanding capacity, clarity, and momentum towards what aligns and truly matters.
Free Taster Session.
Add-on 1:1 coaching packages for more personalized support.
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8 Week Group Cohort With ADHD Parenting Package
Support for parents navigating ADHD in themselves, their children, or both.
Covers collaboration, communication, boundaries, consequences, nervous system regulation, homework, and more.
FREE Parent Intro Session.
Add-on 1:1 coaching for more personalized support.
Testimonials
Start With A Free Chat
An open, free from judgment chat to understand what’s feeling stuck, and what kind of support would help move you forward.
If it feels like a good fit, we’ll map your next steps.
Bring your questions, your frustrations, and your goals!
Frequently Asked Questions
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My coaching specifically focuses on:
forward movement rather than the past
identity shifts and changing limiting beliefs
aligned decision-making
systems and environmental design
nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and capacity
real-world implementation
habits and behavioral change
leveraging strengths
If you’re looking instead for cognitive trauma processing, diagnosis, or clinical mental health treatment, this very much falls under therapy - I’d be happy to refer you to a great licensed therapist.
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HoloADHD support includes integrative coaching, education, tools and practitioner work to help create the life you envision:
nervous system regulation to reclaim choice
identity transformation and belief rewiring
north star and vision clarity
strengths and values leveraging
executive function scaffolding
environmental design
relational co-regulation
hormone management
ADHD nutrition, health and wellbeing
business + home systems
mastering your day week and month
accountability
decision making support
It’s biopsychosocial and environmental.
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No.
Many adults I work with are:
late-diagnosed
self-identified
exploring whether ADHD or AuDHD fits
navigating HSP traits or executive function differences
You don’t need paperwork to start building better conditions for your wiring.
As well as inattentive, hyperactive and combined ADHD traits, my expertise includes the AuDHD neurotype. My experience includes working with:
Interoception difficulties
Sensory sensitivities
Alexithymia and dysalexithymia
Monotropism
Masking
Emotional awareness
Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
Hyperfocus
Task-switching difficulties
Rejection sensitivity
Fluctuating capacity -
Yes — I deal with parents juggling:
ADHD themselves
ADHD children
multiple roles
hormonal shifts
business responsibilities
This is not ADHD parenting coaching alone.
It includes support with household regulation and systems to positively impact you and the rest of your home.
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Yes.
Many clients are:
founders
professionals
service providers
creatives
Business struggles often are regulation + identity + system design issues.
We help you grow life first businesses that don’t burn down your nervous system.
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If you're based in the US, possibly yes - and it's worth checking. ADHD coaching may qualify as a reimbursable medical expense under HSA and FSA rules when it's part of a treatment plan for a diagnosed condition. The key step is asking your doctor, psychiatrist, or diagnosing clinician for a Letter of Medical Necessity before we start working together. This letter, combined with detailed receipts from your sessions, gives you the strongest case for reimbursement.
Every plan is different, so confirm with your HSA or FSA administrator whether coaching is covered under your specific plan.
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I can provide itemised receipts showing session dates, fees, and a description of the service. If your plan administrator needs anything specific — a particular format, additional detail — just let me know and I'll do my best to support you.
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Yes, I accept card payments, which means if your plan allows direct payment (rather than reimbursement after the fact), you may be able to pay for sessions using your HSA or FSA card directly. Check with your plan administrator to confirm whether direct payment is permitted under your plan.
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Yes.
I believe structured support should be sustainable — not another source of stress.
Payment plans and pay-what-you-can options are available for packages - we can discuss what makes sense for your situation during a discovery call.
Transparency matters here.
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That’s usually because the system wasn’t designed for:
your nervous system state
your emotional drivers
your energy patterns
your real life load
This isn’t hacks.
It’s about regulating capacity first before support getting clarity - then building scaffolds and systems that fit your wiring.
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No.
In fact, we start by reducing overload.
Regulation comes first.
Then clarity.
Then simple, sustainable structure.You won’t be handed a 27-step plan.
You’ll get targeted, layered shifts.
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ADHD medication, whether it is a prescribed stimulant or non-stimulant, can make focus easier.
But ADHD is not a deficit in attention but a difference in regulation, which the medication doesn’t help with.
Most people with ADHD, especially those who are late diagnosed, still need the systems, structures, education, and skills development to make efficient progress towards their life goals.
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Yes.
While many of my clients are late-diagnosed women, as much of the support out there misses their needs, the work is for all adults with ADHD or AuDHD who want integrated support.
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To feel
increased clarity
reduced overwhelm
better regulation awareness
most clients need at least six sessions.
Deeper shifts in identity, systems, and sustainable capacity develop over months - not overnight.
This isn’t a quick fix.
It’s a sustainable reset to change subconscious patterning. -
If you are in burnout we slow down first.
If your nervous system has been in survival mode for too long, your brain will:
struggle to prioritize
avoid tasks
feel foggy or wired
lose access to meaning
We don’t push productivity hard in that state.
We rebuild physiological capacity, reduce friction, and restore clarity.
Forward momentum without forcing it is the goal.
Many ADHD and AuDHD adults also experience anxiety.
Often what gets labeled as “anxiety” is:
chronic nervous system activation
uncertainty intolerance
rejection sensitivity
cognitive overload
environmental misfit
We work with the body and these states - not just the thoughts to help you move forward.
We are not a substitute for medical or clinical care or medical advise.
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This work is designed exactly for that. Planning for real life, not ideal weeks, building systems that adapt as your energy, health, or circumstances change.
Regulating the nervous system and working with integrative health and nutrition, also help you build on your day-to-day capacity.
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